You're astounded by how unfamiliar you feel with your own body and your own sexuality; how you are convinced that if you only inhabited some other body - all would be just perfect.
Well, let me share with you a minuscule hidden - you are not alone.
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To paraphrase an old saying, as goes your knowledge and the embracement of your body, so too goes your sexuality.
So, just for the time being, let's agree to leave the clothing in the closet. Let's agree to focus on pleasure and fulfillment. Your pleasure and fulfillment.
On your terms.
With your body.
It doesn't matter if you've always felt uncomfortable talking about (whisper) sex and sexuality. It doesn't matter if you have always blushed when you so much as read the word "masturbation." It doesn't matter if you have never had the nerve to crusade for your G-spot, or the courage to ask your partner to do something "special."
You will.
So, here's my promise: We're going to absolutely talk about sex and your sexuality, about your body and your satisfaction, in a easy way that will be informative and fun. Okay? Okay.
So breathe. That's right, breathe.
I want you to relax. I keep reminding you to relax because talking closely about sex and your body and your enjoyment of sex can be uncomfortable, if not awkward and intimidating. I know that. But it's just us. You and me. We're in this together.
Most women feel a minuscule uncomfortable with their sexuality because of their religious background, upbringing or their personal sexual and sensual experiences. Oftentimes, they are uncomfortable mental of themselves in a sexual way because they feel dissatisfied with their bodies.
Does that sound familiar?
Well, let me let you in on an additional one hidden - just about every woman feels uncomfortable with her own body (yes, even those women in the magazines by the checkout counter.) either it's her skin, her nose, her eyes, her breasts, her stomach, her hips, butt, legs, or her stretch marks... Whatever. Ask just about any woman in the world about what's wrong with her body and she will deliver you a long list of her "flaws."
So, along with leaving the clothes in the closet, we're calling a moratorium on you mental that your body is flawed. In any way. While we are together, you are a goddess. Pure and simple.
Try luxuriating in that opinion for a moment. Nice, isn't it?
My mental is, if every woman feels she has these flaws, then maybe they are not flaws at all. Having a poor body image of yourself is so universal as to be "normal" - which, I'm sure you'll agree if you were to give it some thought, it is a minuscule weird. How can it be "normal" to think that there's something "wrong" with your body when "wrong" supposedly means "not-normal". So the first thing we're going to do is dispense with the not-very-useful and probably downright damaging idea of "normal."
Over time, too many of us have been made to feel that our bodies are unnatural, our sexuality is secretive and our desires and passions are shameful and should be repressed. After all, a good girl wouldn't want to do that!
Wanna bet?
Our sexuality and sexual expression has no natural limit - nor should it as long as it is not hurtful to us or anything else. either masturbatory, same-sex, heterosexual, multiple partners or a full spectrum of game-playing, fantasy, positions or practices, sex and sexuality is natural. Sex is who we are. Sex is what we do.
And sex is good.
Everyone is sexual. Everyone has sexuality. However, because of what I call the ignorance or cruelty of our cultural dynamic, women have received the message that it's not "good" to be sexual; in fact, the message has often been that it might even be detrimental. As if sex could absolutely be bad for you! Sure, you must protect yourself from disease. What I mean is wholly sexual activity is natural and shouldn't be repressed. Sadly, the message has been powerfully effective. Women suppress sexual desires and sexual experimentation in fear of what men will think of them if they are too sexual. After all, our "virtue" is the foundation upon which all of Western civilization is built.
That's quite a burden to carry but, while our "virtue" might be important to society and culture, there is no natural contradiction in the middle of virtue and sexuality. Some of the most wonderful, happy and kind people I know are very sexual and sexually fulfilled - some in monogamous, heterosexual relationships, some in homosexual relationships and some single, free, and "out there". They are living the sexual lives filled with virtues of self and others while sharing their sexuality with their partner.
If you've ever wondered why it can be so hard to simply let go and allow yourself to embrace the depth of your own sexuality, it's probably because you're weighted down with the burden of carrying colse to those thousands of years of Western civilization. So, let go of the burden of lugging Western civilization on your poor, tired shoulders for a few moments, and get in touch with your sexuality. And don't for even a second think you don't have any sexuality to get in touch with. You've got it all right, just like Everyone else. It is just a interrogate of discovering it, exploring it, coming to terms (your terms) with it and incorporating it in your life to maximize your happiness and well-being.
Does that seem like such a threat to life as we know it? It shouldn't. Say the word out loud. Sex. What? No lightning bolts from on high? Now say, "sexuality." Still no lightning bolts? Okay, now in a strong, proud voice, say "My sexuality!"
Don't be embarrassed or modest Everyone has one. It's time to explore it, feel it, touch it and become intimate with your own sexuality.
Sexuality is not a static thing. It is not something that can be put in a box and taken out on extra occasions. It is an on-going dynamic part of us all. It is the "you" that embraces the journey of your life. It is your passion (and, ironically, not only your sexual passion.) It is part and parcel of who you are as a complete, satisfied human being. Sexuality evolves from the inside and blooms as you feel more clear about who you are. Sexuality is a process. Sexuality is an expression of inner personal drive of we as women and knowing who we are and what we like.
And it always has been. That is, before a bunch of tired, old men imposed a patriarchal collective buildings on us because they were freaked out by the fact that we women had the inherent to have multiple orgasms; that we could bleed without dying; and that we had within us the means for bringing forth all time to come generations. That's right, that's what we do. Impressed? Intimidated? It doesn't matter that is what we can do.
It also seemed to freak them out that we had passions about life, learning, and about the world.
It freaked them out that we wanted to embrace the world. Well, that was a minuscule much for those old men. Or, as it is written in one Old Testament story that resulted in the massacre of an whole community, they realized that we just might be attracted to "uncircumsized giants."
Men's tender, brittle egos and feelings aside, the embracing of our sexuality sounds pretty uplifting, empowering and fantastic to me. It's just a shame that society seems to be troubled by a woman's embracement of her sexuality; of your embracement of your own sexuality. After all, your sexuality needn't be a threat to anyone. Not society. Not your family. Not your husband or partner. It is a good thing. For you. For your partner or partners. It is not a hammer to beat man with; it is an principal part of who you are.
It is you.
Don't fear it. Embrace it.
And never, ever let anything tell you it's wrong. That has been going on for far, far too long to no one's benefit at all.
Let's get personal and start closely talking about your very own sexual satisfaction.
In Touch: An Exploration Of Female Sexuality
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