1. Teenage girls are encouraged to display their unique courage and they equally withhold other girls for their individuality. Teenagers have a big qoute supporting each other's unique personalities. Conformity, the opposite of courage, is more the required appropriate of acceptance, and girls often taunt or ostracize each other if they mouth their originality. Girls tend to brand each other with unfavorable labels, and this negative branding can last a lifetime if the girl internalizes the cruel comments. These behaviors undermine self-esteem and suppress speaking up. Phyllis Chesler's years of explore led her to quit in "Woman's Inhumanity to Woman": "Nice girls are not necessarily nice at all-and that most girls know this.... The Teenage girls who engage in policing, shaming, and ostracizing other Teenage girls are not exactly passive victims, but are in fact each of them actively protecting their own self-interest."
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What can you do? Independently speak up and declare, "Now is the time for women to stop gossiping, backbiting and slandering other women," says Chesler. Betrayal will never advance Teenage girls, and grudges only keep us pedaling in the same spot (even at work). Stop duplicate standards for boys and girls. Do not encourage feelings of loneliness or rejection because a girl expresses her individuality in spite of the latest trend with the "in" crowd. The individualists among our girls tend to be labeled as "too strong," so take benefit of every opportunity to withhold the courage portrayed by each girl-the girl who is willing to stand alone on an issue, the girl who indeed expresses what no one else can (or will), the girl who chooses to be her true self, changing her behavior to reflect her spirit. Elevating your personal courage is not a sin. It is a virtue!
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2. Girls learn to exhibit their courage at a young age when they retell openly and demonstrate supportive behaviors. Chesler continues, "Like girls, adult women intimates value their relationship to each other so much that they are willing to sell out direct and honest communication." Unfortunately, young girls are unskilled at speaking directly much less being able to express exactly what they think. This makes a courageous teen stand out from the crowd. How Teenage girls demonstrate communication skills starts in grammar school, witnessing their parents and their society leaders.
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What can you do? withhold speaking directly without manipulation. Do not accept so fast what one girl says about someone else girl. eye if you speak more caringly and forgivingly to a boy. If so, why do you talk with dissimilar standards?
3. Girls demonstrate courage when they comfortably express their accomplishments and when they are openly complimentary to peers. Speaking up to share your experiences, such as getting an A on a paper or indeed complimenting someone else girl for her courage is often determined boasting or bragging, so girls are uncomfortable (and lack support) to express their accomplishments. Girls rarely express their accomplishments because it can be judged as haughty bragging. At this greatest it is not pretty and neither is "machisma." explore now indicates that girls commonly ask out guys and that they are comfortable expressing this behavior. In other words, girls activate the feel ("sometimes even sex, in a more aggressive manner," writes Alex Kuczynski in "Teen Girls' Aggressiveness a Resounding Reversal") and consider it normal. So what's wrong with expressing pride in your hard-earned accomplishments or newfound insights?
What can you do? There is nothing wrong with "going for it"-being all you can be. advance your accomplishments (large or small) with grace, and encourage others. Extending compliments spurs withhold and extends genuine hospitality.
4. Girls outgrow and courageously overcome the need to gossip or start rumors about each other. No one wants to feel left out in the cold. Gossip and rumors do not end when you "grow up" and start work. These negative practices end with taking responsibility for your actions, admitting that you have done it to other girls and insight what it feels like when it has been done to you.
What can you do? The last thing you want to do is hold a grudge. Do not allow your feelings to fester while you expound those feelings by telling your friends about the injustice of the situation. Before you become a martyr, put petty jealousies behind you. Watching her daughter grow and a former Denver Post writer, Angela Cortez says, "It takes courage for a teen to refuse to go with the crowd and avoid recording artists who degrade women in their music." Find the courage to carry on in the face of complications.
5. Girls rarely bully each other. Unfortunately, girls do bully each other; then, they grow up and bully habitancy at work. Doctors Gary and Ruth Namie started The Workplace Bullying & Trauma institute years ago. Gary told me, "Fifty-eight percent of bullies are women, and of that fifty-eight percent, practically eighty-seven percent are women bullying women. Sadly, when the bully finds his or her target, the target pays with his or her job." It can be as straightforward as not returning a smile, saying hello or giving the "evil eye."
Most of the time, it is the loudest and pushiest who set the bully standards for the group. (Unchecked, these same teens demonstrate the same tendencies as adults-e.g., overly zealous behaviors or entitlement). These behaviors do not stop simply because person graduates from high school or college. Bullying is cruel and unacceptable behavior. The cruelty of children to children is real and it happens at a developmental stage when children are most vulnerable. Preventing bullying, no matter what form it takes, demands personal courage.
What can you do? determine your real agenda. Is the bullying about you, or is it intended to silence and overpower others? Tell the bully that they cannot talk to you that way. Even though you cannot operate the person, you have at least expressed your boundary, and that takes courage. A teenager's situation is about not letting the bully keep the power; then, the drama starts to diminish. I had to speak up to a female participant who was belittling me. I said, "Excuse me. You don't get to speak to me that way. I am happy to talk to you, but not with that tone." everybody wants to feel accepted, so let us all identify that trying to overpower other girls only degrades us all.
6. Cliques and "pecking order" are only a teen phenomena. Girls effortlessly adopt group manipulation tactics, and the mechanisms of this manipulation, the cliques, continue into adulthood. Most girls have an enduring need to belong, and "cliques form a raft to help us navigate life's choppy waters. And by their nature, cliques practically all the time result an internal chain of command with others allowing those with the most perceived power to lead-even if what the leaders are doing makes us uncomfortable. Didn't we leave all that stuff behind long ago, in junior high?" writes Jenny Deam. Not exactly!
What can you do? Speak up to end the perception that we are not all equal. "Appearance is not essence, perception is not reality, and the cover is not the book. Error is quite often convincing, which is an unpleasant fact to consider and accept. everybody privately believes that their own personal view of the world is 'real,' factual and true," writes David R. Hawkins, M.D., Ph.D. In "Truth vs Falsehood: How to Tell the Difference." Be fierce and devoted friends to each other.
6 Myths About teenage Courage
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